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I am dismayed to have returned to a SOLOHQ badly impoverished by the departure of Jennifer Ianollo and Kelly Elmore. I appreciate your subsequent effort to bring Jennifer back, but I would like to see all of us here step back and learn something from this mess.
David Elmore's posting to Joe was such a dismal display of linguistic and intellectual ineptitude that it brought my esteem for him into negative numbers. I don't see how an apology from someone who demonstrates such incompetence can be of value. I do not understand why anyone would seek an apology from him, or make it a condition of anything.
Your reference to Jennifer and Kelly as David Elmore's "lackeys" is, to put it politely, counterfactual. For a full-time mother and homemaker, which Kelly is, to refer to her husband's writing as "trailer trash behavior" takes tremendous integrity. Kelly is no one's "lackey," and to address her with such language is an enormous injustice.
When Kelly Elmore came to SOLO I already admired her contributions on the Objectivist Parenting mailing list, and I have equal admiration for her contributions on SOLO. I've had part of rasing 3 young ones myself, I have taught graduate courses in developmental psychology, and I do not grant admiration lightly. Parenting is of enormous importance to many of us, and to unleash invective - unjust invective - against SOLO's most distinguished contributor in this area is not something I would have expected of you.
You then stuck the same label on Jennifer Iannolo, because she understood and stood up for Kelly Elmore.
The only explanation I can think of is that you, Linz, are ignorant of parenting and marriage, and of what is entailed in a mother's relationship with the father of her child, and that you did not know what you were doing - and thus we lost Kelly and Jennifer from SOLO. Please stop the invective, and take a breather to think and learn.
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