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Post 40

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 2:58pmSanction this postReply
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Jeff:

Thank you. Advertising is completely lost on me. I don't watch television often, so anytime I do everything is new and very exciting. Many times I have tried to relate to someone my utter amazement at something I have seen in a commercial. The punchline, of course, is that they ask what it's an ad for and I have no idea.

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Post 41

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 2:59pmSanction this postReply
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As to the issues pertaining to Objectivist sociology which are being aired on this thread: Sorry to enter a Casandraish remark, but I don't think the problems being pointed out will ever change. I think they're endemic. I've been on the fringes of the Objectivist movement since mid-'63 (though I've never considered myself an Objectivist), and I've seen the same sort of dynamics over and over. I think that Objectivism attracts a lot of people who are prone to self-righteousness, and that becoming involved with the Objectivst world tends to encourage the development of this characteristic even in people who don't start out displaying it. The number of people I've known who, after years of considering themselves Objectivists, remain untainted by what Sarah described as "chest-beating" proclivities, is few.

As to why the number of women and men seems disproportionate: I'm not so sure there really is, among those interested in Objectivism, the disparity in numbers which is often found at conferences and on discussion lists. It would be interesting to know the breakdown in percentage of contributors to the various organizations. Maybe there's a highter percentage of women among the contributors than among the public participators?

Ellen S.

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Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 3:08pmSanction this postReply
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Ashely: I tried to give her a copy of "The Fountainhead" as a gift once soon after we met, and she laughed and put it under her drink.

Cara Ashely, why have you tried to give her a copy of " The Fountainhead?"


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Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 3:10pmSanction this postReply
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Ellen,

Prone to self-righteousness! Now there's a phrase for you.

I hadn't thought of this tendency being a personality trait, but, on thinking about it, yes, you are correct. I know many like that - and they were like that before learning about Rand's ideas.

There is so much to plow through to get to the ideas...

Thank you for that comment.

Michael



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Post 44

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 3:12pmSanction this postReply
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My grandfather and his brother were physicists at Oak Ridge during the war. My grandfather Frederick McNally worked with vacuum technology after the war and was one of the founding members of the professional society and journal for that field. My great uncle J. Rand McNally worked at Oak Ridge in plasma physics until just a few years ago. They were both brilliant, wonderful, kind men. My grandfather, in particular, is my hero. He is dead now but he continues to inspire my personal ambition and excellence in all things. I am happy that this thread gave me occasion to think of him.

Sarah, I think you are an intelligent and thoughtful poster. Whatever you decide with regards to this forum, I hope you find great success in your personal and professional endeavors.

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Post 45

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 3:26pmSanction this postReply
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Ciro said:

Cara Ashely, why have you tried to give her a copy of " The Fountainhead?"

Ha ha, Ciro. I said they didn't necessarily have to *be* Objectivists, not that I would never try to win them over!

Seriously, Meghan shares my sense of life, I love reading Rand, I thought she might enjoy "The Fountainhead." She never even cracked it open. In all fairness, she has recommended some weird crap to me that I never even bothered with. All non-essential. What matters is that she looks amazing in hotpants and can grill my steaks perfectly, seared on the outside, mooing from within.

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Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 3:49pmSanction this postReply
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Ashely, your face is very cute, with your posts you always communicate
something pleasurable and interesting to read.
You will always have a place at my table.

Mr Coats, if your post is sincere, with the same sincerity
I accept your words with great pleasure..
chiamami Ciro.


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Post 47

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 4:06pmSanction this postReply
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'Surrounding SOLO'

 There once was a local standup routine in a West Coast pub (of all places) and in attendance was this small group of German tourists. After the show the comedian came down to the bar and the Germans wanted to buy him a drink. One of the visitors asks him, "You really have a great routine going, how come we don't have anyone as funny as you back home?". The Coaster set down his beer and says, "Because you killed them all."

 In any normal distribution of numerical facts there tend to be abnormalities at the extremities. 70%  of us (if not more ) think the same thoughts, watch the same TV, laugh at the same jokes, eat the same food, hold the same opinions. Only very few members of a population have the extra je ne sais quoi to be extremely funny, extremely revolutionary physicists, extremely revolutionary novelist-philosophers. Among these extreme deviants are the great benefactors of we mere standard deviation population members. It doesn't do for us to kill them off.

 However, one doesn't have to be an extreme outlier to bring to one's group the benefits of diversity. Plain old ordinary garden variety disagreements are very much a blessing and we should be glad to find them. If I am in the right then the perspective I disagree with is an indispensable whetstone for showing me just how right I am and how I can understand and explain my own view better. But if I am wrong then the disagreement draws my attention so that I can correct the mistake. Disagreements are a win-win situations. Why then do people not choose to win? They frequently choose instead to be provoked by disagreements into fighting with each other, taking disagreement as a personal affront rather than personal boon. We evict, abandon, fight, kill and die instead- and these aren't things we work ourselves up to they are our default positions! 

  I decided to register with solohq.com a few months back. It coincided with the assent of our present editor's predecessor, this was no accident on my part. My ideas and my ways have been in disagreement with Mr Perigo in the past, so this was my chance to bypass him (admire him as I do). All the same, I thought I'd be long gone for good by now. Turns out I'm not, but the old editor and a swag of others too (who you'd never have guessed) have hit the trail and all because of disagreements they and we choose not to resolve. What a waste of a win-win opportunity! This can happen again unless we all mature in our regard for disagreement and respond to it first with a little charity and understanding, not claws. The ones that go are always authors, always high-rating members and distinguished by being outside the pack.

 Wrote a great playwright- 'If you're dumb, surround yourself with smart people. If you're smart, surround yourself with smart people who disagree with you.' Who shall you choose to surround SOLO with?


Post 48

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 4:17pmSanction this postReply
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Rick,

That is one great post. I am THOROUGHLY in agreement with you.


Post 49

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 4:33pmSanction this postReply
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Rick,

As usual, I'm not completely sure of what you're saying so I'll just reply to what I guess you're saying. This has nothing to do with intellectual disagreements. If I hadn't the stomach for those I never would've signed up in the first place.

Sarah

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Post 50

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 5:03pmSanction this postReply
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> Sorry to enter a Casandraish remark, but I don't think the problems being pointed out will ever change. I think they're endemic...I've seen the same sort of dynamics over and over. I think that Objectivism attracts a lot of people who are prone to self-righteousness, and that becoming involved with the Objectivst world tends to encourage the development of this characteristic [Lysandra]

A key fact is timing. Objectivism tends to be adopted by teenagers (or not much later). Later on is when they are far more likely to have absorbed the idea that it is impractical or unrealistic. Adolescence is when people, while they have the openness and idealism of youth, also are prone to less-desirable traits: tunnel-vision, arrogance, social insensitivity, solipsism, and to not seeing beyond someone's disagreement to anything else about the person. Why? Because the preceding are simple-minded ways of looking at the world and it takes time to grow past them. Young people do not yet have a lot of knowledge ... about history, about people, about psychology, about relationships, about living, about communication or persuasion or cooperation. Objectivism at that point is, say, 70%-90% of their knowledge in the humanities. The problem comes from adolescent arrogance which fails to change with time, knowledge, and experience.

The trick is to grow in knowledge without it shaking your acceptance of the philosophy. To get to the point where Objectivism is a solid 20% of what is in your head..solid, unquestioned, but well integrated in a mind that continues to grow in knowledge, subtlety and maturity.

It is an extremely difficult think to achieve and requires a lot of thought and study. What you get instead is two very large categories of people who had a youthful interest in Rand:

1. People who have abandoned Objectivism without having fully understood it.

2. People who have accepted Objectivism but have not learned much else in the humanities or in the skills of writing, persuasion, organization, or movement building.

That is why I have advocated to TOC that they start a *comprehensive* training program in the humanities, writing, rhetoric, movement skills, not just Objectivism to develop "non-flaky Objectivists". ARI has a program which seems to be becoming about a bit more than just Oism...I have no way of knowing how good it is. ARI also has been developing a hard core of those well-trained at least in Objectivism.

(The problem with doing this seems to be Kelley, whose bailiwick the academic aspects still seem to fall within even though he is no longer in charge of the entire organization, and who I'm told had exactly zero interest in my proposal. I think he would view my proposal as "indoctrination" and thinks that high-level academic seminars as opposed to a resource-consuming training in "back to basics" are what TOC should be doing instead with its limited resources. Unfortunately, this won't succeed and has not. This is the" gear-stripping mistake": the idea that you can skip developmental steps, build a building without a solid foundation, without it coming back to bite you in the butt ... or crash down onto your head.)

So in other words, Ellen, it IS changeable.

But it is ONLY changeable, by doing what I suggested: Training and Civilizing Objectivists (across a period of years). No shortcuts.

--Philip Coates


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on 11/27, 5:09pm)


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Post 51

Sunday, November 27, 2005 - 11:46pmSanction this postReply
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Phil opines (at the end of an intelligent post, the intelligence and thought behind which I'm in no way attempting to demean):

"So in other word, Ellen, it IS changeable.

"But it is ONLY changeable, by doing what I suggested: Training and Civilizing Objectivists (across a period of years). No shortcuts."

You see why I described my remark as "Casandraish"? Casandra had a history of making prognostications that were correct but to which no one listened. My belief is that the only way in which it's "changeable" is to recognize that there's all along been that in the philosphy itself which occasions and will continue to occasion the recurring pattern. The source is and was Ayn Rand, whose own psychology was so intimately entwined with her philosophy as to be inextricable. IMO.

Ellen



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Monday, November 28, 2005 - 10:50amSanction this postReply
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Jeff Perren wrote, "I'm among those who believes that honest [philosophical] errors are relatively few in life among most individuals."

I think most Objectivists would agree with you, which is why they're so intolerant of people who disagree with them.

- Bill

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Post 53

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Bill,
Possibly. But I think it more likely that their error consists not of being intolerant to breaches of morality, but in treating all breaches as equally serious. I can think a man dishonest in expressing a particular view and still reasonably take into account his many other virtues. Most moral failures don't make a man the equivalent of Genghis Khan come anew. Believing that morality is of the highest importance does not commit me to that view.


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Post 54

Monday, November 28, 2005 - 1:25pmSanction this postReply
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Hear hear, Jeff!

Michael


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Post 55

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Whatever the reasons, it seems to me many men quite enjoy competing. Inherent to competition is winning. You want to look good and the other person has to look bad. Obviously, debate is one form of competition. But when the the context for debate has social elements (e.g., party, dinner, discussion board), these competitive goals often interfere with social goals (e.g., fun with others, engaging in civil dialogue, learning about other folk, just getting along). This is especially true when the competition turns nasty, that is, insults, sarcasm, and the like.

I know I have been guilty of sarcasm and such when debating certain folk. There is a part of me that can't resist taking shots at people who present as  pretentious (on-line, anyway).  I believe it takes a strong-willed and disciplined person not to go the eye-for-an-eye debate route. In terms of men on Oist lists, Robert Campbell and Chris Sciabarra are two that I have ~never~ seen do this. Don't know how they do it, but they do!

But for women, I think ~most~ of them (Objectivists or not) don't enjoy the eye-for-an-eye debate style. Whereas most men do enjoy it.

What might this  mean for women on Oist discussion boards? Well, my belief is if Oist men don't want women to leave, they need to value "playing nice" over "kicking ass" when it comes to discussions. So instead of treating discussion boards as a competitive game, testosterone-holders like ourselves need to treat the discussions as forums for learning. And learning not only about things intellectual, but learning about other people (i.e, other discussants). The focus of discussion, then, becomes both intellectual and social.

Women reading this post, of course, can correct me if they think my diagnosis of the problem and my proposed treatment interventions are off. :-)

To summarize, I strongly believe that until Oist men minimize using discussion boards for "pissing contests," we will continue to see the problem of women dissociating and distancing themselves from Objectivist groups.

-Walter

PS - While I'm on the topic, as an experiment, I would be interested to see a discussion group populated entirely by women and then see what happens to the group dynamics as men enter the group, one-by-one.


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Monday, November 28, 2005 - 6:40pmSanction this postReply
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I thoroughly enjoy "kicking ass" and winning-- through destroying arguments and making the strongest irrefutable arguments I'm capable of. Hmmm... but I guess this is a good time to re-evaluate how I go about it. Does anyone have any comments on my behavior? Feel free to send me a mail.

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Monday, November 28, 2005 - 8:44pmSanction this postReply
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Phil and Walter,

Great posts. Please keep up the good work.

-Bill

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Monday, November 28, 2005 - 10:48pmSanction this postReply
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You know, I have been meaning to say this, but Ashley you look like Drew Barrymore in your picture. 

I have to agree with you that males have a much more aggressive argument style, even when non-physical, and the internet just makes it worse.  I was always uncomfortable with that when I was younger, but I got a baptism by fire in the sales industry and became good at the kind of male "banter" that can often be kind of strong.  In fact, now I have to reign if back, especially now that political correctness rules the world.

Then again, compared to most "internet" sites you can actually have a real discussion here.  The strange thing is for me a post is the opposite of conversation - in fluid conversation I will often say whatever is on my mind.  It sometimes makes me funny, but also falls flat a lot.  When I post or write an email, I think about it more carefully and tend to delete the extremes out.


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Monday, November 28, 2005 - 11:17pmSanction this postReply
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Walter,

I can't speak for any other women, but relative to my experience you are at least on the right track with post 55.  I came to SOLOHQ to learn about Objectivism and how it applies to my life.  I was not interested in bloody debate. 

Please don't be mistaken, I thoroughly enjoy a heated debate, especially when it ends in a win for me. :-)  I spent 5 years working as an attorney before taking time out to be a mom.  I know the emotional high that comes from giving a sound ass-kicking. 

But since I came here to learn, rather than to defeat opponents, I haven't  indulged my bloodlust on this forum.  I read what others have to say, consider it, and decide how or whether it applies to me.  Sometimes it's a challenge when wading through all the mud that gets slung about.

Perhaps other women have the same attitude toward forum debate.  That could explain why they seem to enter debate less often but attend conferences is more equal numbers? 


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