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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 3:17amSanction this postReply
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Fan-fucking-tastic, Matthew! Abby's "advice" felt positively slimy and disgusting, but your reply was a well-deserved bitchslap upside the head! Here's hoping she publishes it for her readers' edification...

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 4:35amSanction this postReply
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That was a great response, Matt.  I hope it sees publication. 

I hope everyone knows by now that for advice see Dear Tabby and don't waste your time with Dear Abby.

Kat


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 5:12amSanction this postReply
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Ha!  I recall Objectivist psychologist Dr. Michael Hurd describing advice from columnists like "Dear Abby" as "glib."

When I was growing up in North Carolina, I read the original "Dear Abby" every single day it hit print.  No wonder I felt so confused as a lad.

Excellent response, Matthew.

(Edited by Luke Setzer on 11/01, 5:30am)


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 7:05amSanction this postReply
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Thanks, everybody. I don't know if it will see publication, given how harshly I worded it, but all the same: I'm glad I said it.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 8:20amSanction this postReply
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Matthew,

That was a great response and not too harsh, in my opinion. You kept it at the facts and evaluation of the situation level.

Sometimes people who have their own columns don't like to be shown their errors on their own turf, however.

Let's what Abby does.

Michael



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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 8:26amSanction this postReply
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Thanks, MSK. I can understand if the woman writing "Dear Abby" is unwilling to publish my response. It's her column. All I want is for her to read it and think. Maybe she'll learn something.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 9:05amSanction this postReply
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Matthew,

That was so great!

 Don't ever change!

Ethan

(Edited by Ethan Dawe on 11/01, 9:05am)


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 9:17amSanction this postReply
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Thanks, Ethan. I'll try not to change too much, but don't be surprised if the missus files away some of the rough edges over time.
(Edited by Matthew Graybosch
on 11/01, 9:17am)


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 12:03pmSanction this postReply
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Abby's got some nerve telling him "it's you" when she hasn't even met the guy.  My advice to him would have been to look for a company where he can work with other smart people.  He may be at a disadvantage if he is only interested in being an EMT; he may always end up more educated than his co-workers in that line of work.
 
If I were Abby, I would comment on his signature, "Overeducated in the South."  I lived and worked in Huntsville, Alabama for about 10 years at Intergraph Corporation, with some of the smartest people I have ever met.  So even in the South, there are pockets of excellence.  He should just keep looking and stay optimistic.


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 12:11pmSanction this postReply
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You're right, Laure, on all counts.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 12:43pmSanction this postReply
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That was great Matthew and I loved your signature.

I just saw this horrible misrepresentation of The Tall Poppy Syndrome by a woman who lauds our socialist PM as an "adventure diva." Uggh!


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 12:51pmSanction this postReply
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Andrew Bates, I share your distaste. The more I hear about people like Helen Clark and George W. Bush, the more I suspect that Denis Diderot was right:

"Man will not be free until the last king is strangled with the entrails of the last priest."

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 12:52pmSanction this postReply
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Matthew,

Nice letter. It'll never be published is my guess.

"you did not take into account the fact that people are often envious of their superiors "

Way too politically incorrect. The nerve, implying some people are superior to others.

I think the guy needs to get a few hobbies. Learn to fly. Become an expert on ancient coins. Learn a little Greek. Do a little technical writing. Go back to school part time. Post long baffling monologues on Solo.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:01pmSanction this postReply
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Mike Erickson, I would add one more hobby as a last resort: Join Mensa.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:06pmSanction this postReply
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Mike Erickson

Nice letter. It'll never be published is my guess.

Thanks. You're probably right, but I felt better after sending it. That column was more than I could tolerate.

Way too politically incorrect. The nerve, implying some people are superior to others.

Yeah. Chaos forbid that I face reality head-on instead of sugar-coating it to suit others' overly tender sensibilities. Oh well, if they don't like it, then to the void with them.


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:10pmSanction this postReply
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Well done, Andrew. Too easy to let these things slip by even though they're annoying.

And, Mike: you wicked man :-)

Ross

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:16pmSanction this postReply
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Well, Ross, it's not fair to my wife if I go to bed angry.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:16pmSanction this postReply
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Matthew,

Sadly, I have decades of experience with just the sort of thing Abby's column and your reply discuss.  It would be beyond my ability to say how much I agree with you and how grateful I am for your comments to her. If more spoke out as you did, and at work, the problem would simply go away.

(See my Conformity article on Atlasphere
http://www.theatlasphere.com/columns/050916-perren-corporate-culture-conformity.php
, and The Keating Phenomenon on SOLO
http://solohq.com/Articles/Perren/The_Keating_Phenomenon.shtml)


Jeff


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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 1:34pmSanction this postReply
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Jeff Perren

It would be beyond my ability to say how much I agree with you and how grateful I am for your comments to her.

Jeff, you just did. Thank you.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2005 - 3:06pmSanction this postReply
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Due respect, you're all of you foolishly wrong.

There is a lingua franca for everyday life, incase you hadn't noticed, which does not consist of acting like a Shakespearean Vulcan. Matthew, you've got the wrong end of the stick entirely and the columnist is in the right this time.

Tell you who around here is good at it too, Peter Cresswell. In person he's like any decent 'working-class man' going about his business but this belies hidden depths of intelligence. Someone who can swear like a sailor and deliver speech about freedom as casually and self-evidently as if addressing a building site crew on the job can, in a blink, change steps to foot it intellectually with the bow-tied academic economists or soft-handed Ivory-tower sophist philosophers at Auckland University.

It's not about dumbing down, it's not about stunting the growth of poppies! It's about being able to communicate with your common man in a language right down to earth that everybody can easily understand.

Who liked Firefly and succinct Serenity? They speak easy but they're not dumb. Lucidity is the better part of  a cognoscenti.


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