| | Somewhere within a yr ago, my 13-yr old g-son Joey and I got into a discussion that somehow led into (what I consider a 'bromide' he got from school) his asserting "Well, no one's perfect." My mental eyebrow went up, and, we got into a...discussion. --- (An aside: to his intellectual degree, he can give as much as he can take; as I said once before, he never left 'the little lawyer stage'...indeed, since as of late watching so many re-runs of Law and Order [pick your variation], he now wants to be a 'prosecutor'. I guess 'cause he feels he's good at arguing. Wonder how that happened?)
Anyhoo, I pointed out that that depends on what the user-of-the-word 'perfect' actually means (if, they're actually clear on THAT) by it. Some people mean perfect as being beyond reaching. We agreed that that's what he meant. However, I pointed out, a school test where he gets 100% has to be considered perfect (barring 'bonus'-point questions), no? Given that, then any meanings some people have of 'beyond reaching' for the word perfect are really nonsense (not useful/real-oriented) meanings. In short, some things ARE perfect...depending on the criteria (rules) one goes by for evaluating (or, comparing/measuring). Sometimes the rules are nonsense (like, a 'rule' of how to draw a square circle: the set is self-contradictory...following some automatically means breaking others: a nonsense criteria.)
Then I pointed out that, earlier in the same month, he had said that one of his teachers had argued the worth of "Never settle for less than what is best," when I had, at that time, commented on something as being "Good Enough (for govt. work)." He didn't pick up on my parenthetical, but saw my 1st two words as contrary to what he accepted from his teacher. This (earlier discussion) got me thinking about Good Enough and Perfect.
I came to see that there's no difference, whether one's talking about building a birdhouse, making a painting, or dealing with a relationship-conflict...whatever the puzzle/problem in human life, if the 'solution' is good enough, then it's perfect...for the goal/purpose intended. ("Unintended Consequences" re other goals that should be/have-been considered, we didn't get into.)
I spelled this out to him, but, back to the thread's...puzzle:
The 'Platonic' idea of perfect seems to imply something like the impossible dream, the unreachable goal, etc (and I really liked the musical Man of La Mancha) where no matter how close you measure/compare A to B, there'll always be some trivial difference that makes a non-exactness (ergo, lack of perfectness) theoretically expectable as necessarily acceptable. --- Now, I'm not one for General Semantics (or 'Semiotics'), but, I do go by Alfred Korzybski's dictum that "A difference which makes no difference...is no difference." To put it another way, to para-context Rand, "Perfect? By what standard?"
Whether one's talking about a perfect cue-ball, a perfect ship, a perfect human, a perfect morality, or a perfect matching of A to B (actions to an 'ideal' morality, per this thread) methinks that all the aforegoing posted arguments have lost sight of a certain fact: if, and when, once one reaches 'perfection' (given sensible, rational, definitional-criteria, and in whatever subject), this does not imply, especially in territory where things CAN 'change', that even if reached, one cannot have the perfect thing become imperfect ! (Like, a 'bad' change can happen.) That such was never perfect to begin with is a nonsense idea of using the term Perfect. --- As Bruce Wayne's father rhetorically asked the boy Bruce in Batman Begins, "Why does one fall down?" His answer to Bruce: "So you can pick yourself up."
The attempt to improve one's situation, however one got there, is what 'moral perfection' is all about. A former prostitute or prof-assassin CAN be(come) one who has 'unbreached rationality'. Unfortunately, too many think 'unbreached' has to do with one's PAST...rather than one's PRESENT...orientation.
LLAP J:D
P.S: I think this is one my most Perfect posts ! I won't even add an 'edit!' (I proof read the sucker enough times !!!)
PPS: Dammit; had to edit; ok: it wasn't Perfect :(
(Edited by John Dailey on 1/27, 1:31am)
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