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As a grumpy old gray haired guy, I loved your comments re; youth. There is an objective difference between being young and old: the old person has already been where the young person is today, and only with luck and fortune will the other be true. As an old person regarding a younger person, my thoughts are "I hope you make it."
But I also think that the young, just like the old who used to be young, have the right to be young. To be precious, like we all once were, and believe -- truly believe -- that we were the first to have such thoughts, to enjoy such experiences, to see the world as it truly is, for the first time, like no other. As well, to rail at being regarded as precious. Sorry, that is also part of the deal. Been there, done that, had that directed at me.
Because in a sense, although it is not true, in another sense it is true enough. Our youth is the first time we experience the world. And just like we had the right(who could possibly take it away from us?)to be that young, so do all of us, as peers. We can't fault the young for being young, because we once enjoyed the right in exactly the same manner, as peers with a temporal shift.
The old should be grateful; for getting there at all. It isn't guaranteed, and that is something we don't fully appreciate when we are young. I mean, in one sense, we know it, but that is part of what it means to be young; to believe we will not only live forever, but be young forever. It is a necessary component of being young.
As well, the shields are not at 100% effectiveness anymore when we are old. We've been in battles, we've lost close friends, and we show the damage. Old men are often more timid than young men, not just because of physical stature or frailty or loss of vitality, but because of learned experience, often burned fingers. And face it; sometimes what is needed is other than timid thinking, and so, youth is a required element in the stew.
regards, Fred
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