| | a true Objectivist needs to get hot, to charge forward Often being "hot" degrades discretion and the ability to persuade by offending with ensuing defensiveness, or in public debate, cloud the mind of the attacker.
My contention respects the context of an individual's unique character and situation to dictate what temperature proves "just right" to cause flourishing for that person. Indeed! The "Poker-Face" is an excellent example of when emotional self-control makes a difference between winning and losing.
Drama Queen admires Nietzsche Ice Queen masters Machiavelli.
[Dionysian vs. Apollonian in temperament, passion vs rationality in action]
Dilbert, Drama Queen identifies with Alice. Ice Queen role models Dogbert.
[frustrated, bitter victim vs. controlling power]
Drama Queen employs colorful language Ice Queen feels no need to express herself, living intensely in...her own creation and choice.
[extrovert vs. introvert]
Drama Queen reads riot act, recounts a litany of offenses Ice Queen serenely replies, "But I don't think of you."
[altruist vs rational egoist]
Drama Queen grandstands...consider staying if the list owner caves to her demands. Ice Queen quietly leaves the list and creates her own forum.
[populist vs rational egoist]
When others challenge her plan...Drama Queen justifies choices, allows disapproval to sway her The Ice Queen listens opponents in disapproval, then proceeds down her path
[populist vs rational egoist]
Drama Queen looks at superficial qualities The Ice Queen looks at character qualities
[sentimental self-deluder vs. wisdom]
her adulterous husband, Drama Queen tells friends family about how wicked he is Ice Queen tells all her friends and family how wonderful he is,then liquidates those assets
[populist vs rational egoist]
When a rapist attacks, the Drama Queen wallows in misery Ice Queen caresses the attacker, punctures his eyeballs then leaves him to die
[timid & insecure vs. secure & confident]
Luke, I really can't identify a coherent theme, but Rand-ian themes are expressed.
You start by advocating stuffing or evading internal emotional responses to better affect an outcome, and, as the Klingon Proverb goes, "serving revenge [justice] cold". Agreed.
I can identify with some "Drama Queen" aspects Rand's portrayed in such characters as Rearden, who's family and culture has posed a dilemma of either forcing him to accept their subjectivist-populist value system, rewarding un-merited work and need, or demeaning him by his own choice of morality, reason, productivity and self-esteem in not accepting guilt and servility in the altruist pecking order. And Dagny, a Drama-Queen in denial, keeps trying to fix, rescue her railroad and her brother from their depravity, rather than helping them fail, salvaging what she can, and striking out independently.
Roark is truly an Ice-Queen, immense strength of will. But no "Dogbert" seeking domination to abuse. Dominique is the Ice-Queen to herself, her own forsaken hope of joy. But a Drama-Queen to Roark in her attempts to destroy him, to prove and change him.
No doubt many of us experience. I try to better myself in the socially-acceptable way with a tech-school BSEET degree in my youthful naivete of class-culture. Certain old friends resent me for that. Later I become disillusioned as I find I'm hired by organizations that confer rank on sheepskin rather than merit. Some techs that train me to bend-metal (and I'm no craftsman) and hate me for being paid more for less competency because of my sheepskin.
And some engineers despise me for the cheap fast-track, bucking the legacy-preferences in college admissions which establish America's class structure, and I resent their snobish attitudes and making their cables, and not designing circuits and programming chips.
When I strike out on my own, some ostracize me for being a social "deviant", and like crabs in that "crab-bucket" metaphor, like communists-of-spirit who are cheated by my valuing merit and skill more than than popularity and rank conferred by social consensus. Consider me a cheater of the system, someone who's cut in line. Who is trying to rob the social-lottery. A union-scab.
"Fear of success" is the fear of punished for ambition, attempting to escape the pecking-order assignment. Again, the premise is pecking-order conferred by an ulterior value of celebrity, authority, pedigree, - consensus. Old Power or Old Money.
Anything but competence (unless sanctioned by one of the subjective "higher" values). What ancient Chinese emperor put his advisor to death for suggesting an improvement outside his job-scope? I forget.
Corrupt and stupid cultures post the dilemma of choosing between affiliation with inferiority, dependence and servility, or independence and self-esteem with malice and opposition.
Scott
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